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Title : The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
Category: Interpersonal Relations
Brand: Deida, David
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The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. In paperback for the first time, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple "skin friction" into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy, how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender, how to achieve the principal types of orgasm-and all their varieties-and much more.
 
For men and women, singles and couples of every sexual orientation, The Enlightened Sex Manual provides a complete program for sustaining “whole-body recognition of love’s light” in the wild play of sexuality.
 
Contents
 
Part One:  Energy

1. Use your breath to arouse and relax your genitals
2. Restrain your nervous system
3. Use your tongue like a circuit breaker
4. Use your eyes to direct energy

Part Two:  Orgasm

1. Bypass ejaculations for greater pleasure
2. Retrain the addiction to ejaculation
3. Curb fidgets
4. Good ejaculations liberate energy
5. Optimize ejaculations to maximize life’s depth
6. Ejaculate when the body needs to
7. Understand the three types of women’s orgasms
8. Enjoy clitoral orgasms
9. Delight in vaginal orgasms
10. Surrender in the bliss of cervical orgasms
11. Choose when to orgasm
12. Allow orgasmic variation

Part Three:  Variations

1. Stimulate the sex paths
2. Bite, slap, and pinch to move sexual energy
3. Move energy through the lips, nipples, and genitals
4. Stimulate the anus
5. Do the feet
6. Thrust both deep and shallow
7. Connect the cervix and penis
8. Vibrate quickly to increase and smooth out energy
9. Relax your body and breath
10. Make love for at least forty-five minutes

 
Part Four:  Sexual Energy Exercises

1. Breathe sexual energy in a circle
2. Breathe genital energy up
3. Breathe energy down the front
4. Seal your pelvic floor
5. Lock energy in your soft parts

 
 
 
Praise
 
“David Deida explains the heart and soul of women to men.  As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated.  David’s work is a key to helping men and women alike take their relationships one step further.  Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”
Marci Shimoff, Co-author of Chicken Soup for a Woman’s Soul
 
“Being able to reach and live integrated sex, relationship, and transcendence is no easy task.  It requires immense courage, wisdom, and above all, fearless loving.  In Deida, all this gets included in one radical teaching.  You’ll learn how to open your heart and integrate the need to sleep with every attractive woman you see, deal appropriately with a woman’s emotional chaos, give your gift to the word and lover, and finally transcend the whole lot by including it all.”
Vijay Rana, The Watkins Review
 
“Deida brilliantly lays bare the hidden psychology of feminine and masculine and offers clear instructions for tapping into our deepest core and achieving true harmony through sexual intimacy.  I feel that Deida has reached a new level of poetic genius in his writing, and his understanding of feminine psychology astounds me.”
Miranda Shaw, PhD, Author of Passionate Enlightenment:  Women in Tantric Buddhism
 
“David Deida’s teachings on this central human concern, sexuality, emanate from a deeply trustworthy source.  He has undergone his own rigorous training and practice, which manifests in precise, gentle, and thorough teachings.  Many spiritual traditions, including Zen, have excluded or marginalized the sexual experience.  David’s work fills this gap, and gives us a mature approach for bringing the energetic, emotional, and physical experience of sex into our life and practice.  And like Zen, the fruition of David’s work is openness, compassion, and love.”
Genpo Roshi, Author of The Eye Never Sleeps

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I thought this was great
If you are becoming familiar with David Deida, then this book is one good place to start, especially if you are doing so as a couple. This book describes Deida's view of masculine/feminine polarity, sexual energy, sexual desire, and more. And Deida being Deida, it is about sex and spirituality and growth. The book gives the sense that we are being offered an ancient way or yoga or art. We get the sense that Deida has learned this tantric-esque wisdom from various teachers, and now he is transmitting his knowledge to us. Maybe that sounds strange, but I've come to trust his advice and insights. An audio CD-ROM is included, in which Deida describes a number of experiential exercises. A remarkable aspect about Deida is that some of what he says about women is counterintuitive to men, and some of what he says about men is counterintuitive to women. And you are likely to disagree with some of what he tells you about yourself and your sex. But when you test these things out with the...
A Program That Could Solve a Lot of Problems and Enrich Many Lives

Ken Wilber has described this as the only sex manual that you will ever need, and it is difficult to disagree with him. Though Mabel Iam's books are a fine complement to David's work.

David is controversial, but then what innovator is not? He writes and teaches from the perspective of 20 years work with hatha yoga, pranayama, t'ai chi and Tantra. One of the things which I most like about his work is the constant emphasis on the dance of dualities, which has been a major focus of my own work for more than two decades. False dichotomies, such as good/bad, male/female, winner/loser, have, like other false beliefs, caused great sadness and frustration, and it is so important for people to know that there is another way.

Highly recommended for adults who want to heal and enrich their lives.

Let's Skip the Witch Hunts
Just wanted to respond to these fear-arousing posts about David Deida being a "follower of a...demonically deluded cult leader". Curiously, these exact verbatim posts have been made to most of Deida's books listed on Amazon (I haven't checked them all). Seems like some kind of organized effort going on here to smear Deida.

I'm a pretty tolerant guy - everyone has a right to their own opinion, etc. But to suggest that David Deida (or Ken Wilbur for that matter) is a brainwashed follower of Satan, and that you will become infected from reading his stuff, seems pretty laughable to me. Any innovator worth his salt has been accused of the same thing, like, you know, DaVinci, Copernicus, Darwin, St. Francis, Martin Luther, Jesus of Nazareth, etc.

These two gifted thinkers, Deida and Wilbur, are cutting-edge intellectuals, ahead of their time. They are leaders, not followers. Neither has any interest in "controlling" you or what you think, although there are...

Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide To Men, Sex, And Love's Deepest Bliss Promo Offer

Title : Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide To Men, Sex, And Love's Deepest Bliss
Category: Love & Romance
Brand: Deida, David
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Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he'll love you forever. But when the myth you've been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you've been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?

In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his dear lover, here is this internationally acclaimed writer's invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover:

• Why your man is always your choice—and how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit
• “Sexual essence” and the three stages of loving:  how to understand your fluctuating capacity to experience divine connection with another
• Knowing when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind
• Daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodies devotional trust

Ultimately, what every woman wants it to give and receive love fully.  Whether you’re partnered or alone, Dear Lover reveals that “your love is the same love that years to open at everybody’s heart.  You will attract and inspire a man as willing and able to open as you are.  Constant yearning is the call to open and give yourself to all as love’s offering.”
 
Contents
 
1.  You Are Love
2 . Chocolate Love
3. Yearning Is the Key to Love
4. The Gift of Making Love
5. Spiritual Sexiness
6.  Orgasmic Love
7.  Love and Fear
8.  Your Sexual Essence
9.  Your True Heart and Its Shells
10.  Offering or Betraying Your Heart
11.  The Two-Bodied Play of Love
12.  Loving Larger Than Fear
13.  Trusting Your Man to Open You
14.  You Attract Your Reciprocal
15.  Why Men Hold Back
16.  Your Force of Attraction
17.  Your Man is Your Choice
18.  Expressing Pleasure and Hurt
19.  Masculine Insensitivity
20.  How to Stay Open
21.  Opening Beyond an Impasse
22.  Ending Relationships and the Him-Shaped Void
23.  Three Stages of Loving
24. Love is a Living Art
25.   Showing Your Heart’s Light in Public
26.  Choosing Abuse and Refusing Love
27.  Wanting to Be Opened
28.  A Summary of Trusting and Opening
29.  Goodbye

Excerpt

Dear Reader,
I offer the following chapters to you as if you were my lover.  Although you may be single or married, I offer these words to you as I would do my beloved.  We may never meet, but I want to give you the opportunity to feel your heart through mine.
For years, I have taught workshops around the world, opening with women and men while they share their deepest heart’s desires.  It seems we often come to know ourselves most deeply through the heart of someone who loves us, who is willing to open and see us as we truly are, who is willing to listen and feel our heart’s yearning.
To give and receive love fully—this is our heart’s true desire, yours and mine. The yearning you feel in your heart is the same yearning that everyone feels.  By feeling your heart’s yearning through nine, I hope you will come to know yourself more deeply through the many hearts that have opened together in trust and allowed these words to emerge.
All hearts want to open to God, or the boundless flow of divine love.  You may or may not be a religious person, and still your heart years to open without bounds, to be seen and to be offered without limits.  This is what I mean by “open to God”—to open and feel everything and everyone’s heart as a divine expression of love.
 

Praise for Dear Lover

“In the area of sacred intimacy, David Deida is holding a lightning bolt.  He sheds an astonishing light.”
—Marianne Williamson, Author of A Woman’s Worth
 
“As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated.  Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”
—Marci Shimoff, Co-author of the New York Times bestseller Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul
 
“I feel that Deida has reached a new level of poetic genius in his writing, and his understanding of feminine psychology astounds me.”
—Miranda Shaw, PhD.  Author of Passionate Enlightenment:  Women in Tantric Buddhism
 
“We all taste God, taste Goddess, taste pure spirit in those moments of sexual rapture, and wise men and women have always used that rapture to reveal Spirit’s innermost secrets.  David Deida is such a wise one.”
—Ken Wilber, Author of Grace and Grit

Review :
A Few Gems, a Little Kookiness, a Lot of Redundancy
A central question in David Deida's work is: What is sexual love between a man and a woman for? The answer he gives here and elsewhere is that the purpose of sex is to open our bodies and hearts to God, and in fact that sex more than anything else in life is what takes us open to God. "Through entering your heart and body with mine in love's deepest bliss, I open together with you to God."

Deida's distinctive writing style is intuitive and filled with redundancy, so you'll read that message often in this book (which is written as a series of letters from Deida to the reader as his female lover). To me it's attention-getting the first few times he says it but soon becomes mind-numbing. By the end of the book it's enough already!

Still, this book contains some interesting corollaries for women to contemplate. Among them:

* "The secret to unfolding your heart's deepest bliss is to give and receive love fully, with or without a man. . . . You can learn to...
superb book for any couple who wants to live in true harmony and love
'Superior Man' is for men, and an excellent book, but this is the companion volume for women, and gives deep insights into how a true man of integrity is able to and really wants to love the woman in his life. One woman, for this lifetime and even into the next. He writes beautifully and candidly, and each time I read it, I see more and more what I am able to share Tantrically with my partner. We have created bliss on a daily basis through skill, determination, discipline, and above all, love, and this from a man who is by no means easy to live with or love! Or who even thought he knew how to love, all his other relationships had failed so miserably.

Deida's advice about loving each other open to the divine even when 'stuff' gets in the way is one we would all do to remember. After all, what is more sublime than living and being in love-having that 24/7, 365 days a year, always, at every moment, is well worth it, so take the advice offered to heart, read his other books,...
Deida's attempt to write a female version of "The way of the superior man"
Deida has written The Way of the Superior Man for men. In my view, the current book is Deida's attempt to write a similar book for women. The book directed to men deals with life purpose as well as relationship to women. This book only deals with relationships to men. Being male, I can't say how this book resonates with the typical female. So if you are a woman, I would actually mostly look at the reviews written by other women. Having said this, here is my male perspective of the book:

I really liked The Way of the Superior Man (five stars) because it is fast paced and introduce several ideas. The current book is more like the typical self-help book; repetitive and quite unclear when it comes to the ideas. Deida often says that the man can open the woman to God. However, he is not talking about the Christian God and, in fact, it is...